I became a teenager in the mid-1980s, as the AIDS crisis took hold, and I was a bit peeved to see this liberty fade away. “I expect you to handle it with a sense of responsibility though … either way.” “It’s up to you to decide what’s right and what’s wrong,” Katherine’s mother says in “Forever,” of losing one’s virginity. They are about the complications of becoming one.

These are not books about adults taking advantage. (In all fairness, she doesn’t know his status.) In other news, Polly has been hanging out drinking and reading philosophy with a lesbian couple, and is on the way to Cyprus, where she will make out a bit with a married man. In “House Like a Lotus,” the adolescent Polly (her mother is Meg, from “A Wrinkle in Time”) dates a medical intern with full parental sanction, then loses her virginity to him. You could also find teenage sex with adults in some largely parent-approved zones, like Madeleine L’Engle’s books. Thankfully, he never appeared.) In Klein’s “Domestic Arrangements,” the protagonist sleeps with her steady in the family’s bathroom, then gets a mild lecture at breakfast. (Thanks to Klein, as early as 11, I was on the lookout for the Columbia professor who would paint me in the nude and then introduce me to Bach. In books like “Mom, the Wolf Man, and Me” and “Family Secrets,” her characters’ stomping ground was the Upper West Side, a world of apartments decorated with African masks, where a teenager’s sexual and intellectual stimulation met with little to no parental oversight. In the ’70s, Norma Klein was the doyenne of sexually forthcoming Y.A.

But nowadays, far more scarce on the ground are books like “Forever,” in which sex is a natural privilege for teenagers, like getting the keys to the car.īlume was not alone in her approach to literary adolescent sex.

The works are not sensational, and many are great literature. shelf of any bookstore or library, there are books about rape, abortion, molestation, sexual shaming that leads to social isolation. We are by now quite familiar with young adult works that use sex as a go-to for danger. The novel’s crime is that it depicts two ordinary teenagers, Katherine and Michael, who get to know each other and have sex - and nothing bad happens. Since its publication over four decades ago, it has been reliably controversial, but not because it is tawdry, or vulgar. So begins Judy Blume’s “Forever,” the ur-text of “dirty” teenage books - read at countless sleepovers, banned in a thousand classrooms. and has been laid by at least six different guys.”

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